The difficulties in identifying oneself can be overwhelmingly consuming. You can even get lost in other people's beliefs, thoughts, and perceptions. But, I believe there are ways to help building, and develop yourself. Speaking of which;
- YOU SHOULD BE READY TO LEARN.
-DO NOT CONSUME YOURSELF IN NEGATIVITY.
-WORK SMATER NOT HARDER.
-BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.

And trust to grow and find your esteem in whatever you wish to do.